Your Fists Can’t Hit What Your Eyes Can’t See
Friday, January 29th, 2010Before his first title bout with Sonny Liston, former World Heavyweight boxing champion Muhammad Ali once said, “Your fists can’t hit what your eyes can’t see.” The same can be said for the modern day bully. While I am certainly not advocating fighting, or any kind of violence, when dealing with a bullying situation, my father used to tell me that the easiest way to handle a bully was to stand up to them and show them you’re not afraid. This was much easier to do when the bully was on a playground or in the school yard. How do you stand up to the modern-day bully, the cyberbully?
First, let me explain cyberbullying. According to the website stopcyberbullying.org, cyberbullying is defined as, “…when a child, preteen or teen is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teen using the Internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones.” While there are countless incidents of cyberbullying, the most recent resulted in Phoebe Prince, a 15-year-old Irish immigrant living near Boston, MA, committing suicide after, “Some students made mean-spirited comments to Phoebe in school and on the way home from school, but also through texting and social-networking Web sites,” according to Dan Smith, principal of the South Hadley High School Phoebe attended.
Highlighted as part of New Civic Discourse on the 2020 Forecast: Creating the Future of Learning, New Civic Literacy allows digital natives to bring participatory media into the civic sphere. While there are so many positive aspects to New Civic Literacy, cyberbullying is clearly an example of how social media can be misused.
To learn more about cyberbullying, visit stopcyberbullying.org. To learn more about preventing and stopping cyberbullying, click here.

